The Elopement Blog

Ideas, Inspiration + Advice for Couples Planning Small Weddings

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SHOULD YOU TELL PEOPLE YOU ARE ELOPING? ( Honest answer )

Wondering when to tell people you're eloping? Get an honest take on why waiting until after the wedding might be the better choice.

Top 4 Reasons Couples Choose to Elope or Have a Small Wedding

Wondering if a small wedding or elopement is right for you? Here are the top 4 reasons couples make that choice, from a former celebrity wedding planner.

What to Look for in Your Wedding Vendor Contracts (Before You Sign)

Signing a wedding vendor contract? Learn what protections to look for before you book, from a former celebrity wedding planner turned small wedding expert.

How to Tell Your Family You're Eloping or Having a Small Wedding

Telling family you're eloping or having a small wedding? Get 4 expert tips for breaking the news without damaging relationships, from a 20-year wedding planner.

What Is a Small Wedding? (And Should You Have One?)

What counts as a small wedding? Get clear definitions of elopements, micro weddings, and intimate weddings, plus the top reasons couples choose to go small.

How to Use AI for Wedding Planning (And Where It Falls Short)

Planning a small wedding? Here's exactly where AI tools help — and where they fall short — from a former celebrity wedding planner.

Should You Have a Wedding Registry for Your Small Wedding or Elopement?

Wondering if you should have a wedding registry for your elopement or small wedding? Get the dos and don'ts from a 20-year wedding planning pro.

How to Navigate Difficult Family Relationships When Planning a Small Wedding

Planning a small wedding or elopement? Learn how to navigate difficult family relationships, guest list decisions, and expectations — without losing your peace.

How to Plan a Micro Wedding + Is a Micro Wedding right for Your Day

What is a Micro Wedding? Well, essentially it is a small wedding with less than 40 guests that can follow any format you want, but generally has a few more traditional wedding elements than an elopement.

Wedding Floral Designs: How to Choose the Perfect Blooms for Your Big Day

When planning your wedding, the flowers you choose will play a huge role in setting the tone for your entire event. Whether you're dreaming of romantic roses, whimsical wildflowers, or tropical blooms, your floral design helps tell the story of your special day. But how do you choose the perfect flowers, especially when you're eloping or planning a destination wedding like in Hawaii? It all comes down to timing, trusting your florist, and being open to changes. If you’re eloping with Modern Elopement, we’ve taken the time to create gorgeous designs that you can choose from.

How to Choose the Perfect Venue for Your Elopement

Choosing a venue for your elopement is one of the most exciting decisions you’ll make in the planning process. Whether you envision a breathtaking beachfront ceremony, a lush tropical garden, or an intimate cliffside vow exchange, your venue sets the tone for your entire wedding day. At Modern Elopement, we’ve helped hundreds of couples find their dream location, and we’re here to share our tips on how to choose the perfect venue for your elopement.

A Day in the Life of an Elopement Concierge: Behind the Scenes at Modern Elopement

At Modern Elopement, our passion is creating magical, stress-free weddings for our couples. Our dedicated team of Elopement Concierges is here to ensure every detail of your special day is perfect. Today, we’re giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what a typical day is like for our team.

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Including Culture on Your Wedding Day

Tips and Tricks to include your Personal Culture!

How to Get EPIC Wedding Photos

Think you’ll be Awkward in your Photos? Think again!

The Ultimate Guide to the Day of Your Elopement Wedding

Not sure what to expect on the Day Of your Small Wedding? Look no further!

12 Items you May Forget During Elopement Wedding Planning

Planning Your Wedding? Here are some details you won’t want to forget!

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January 1, 2024

Navigating Your Engagement Journey: 10 Tips for a Joyful Start to Planning Your Micro-Wedding

January 1, 2024

Congratulations! You've said “yes” to forever, and the journey to “I do” begins now. The engagement period is a time of joy, dreams, and thoughtful planning. Here are 10 tips to help you navigate this special chapter and lay the foundation for a beautiful wedding day.

January 1, 2024

December 18, 2023

Why Couples Choose to Elope with No Guests

December 18, 2023

Weddings often come with long guest lists and grand celebrations, but there's a growing trend among couples to embrace the intimate and personal act of eloping—with no guests. While traditional weddings have their charm, more and more couples are choosing the path less traveled, finding profound meaning in a ceremony that's just about them and their love story.

December 18, 2023

December 8, 2020

4 Reasons You Have to Have Your Micro-Wedding in Hawaii

December 8, 2020

Are you beyond ready to get married?! We know so many people have had to change their plans or postpone their wedding date. This is why you NEED to run away to Hawaii to get married. Right now.

December 8, 2020

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December 1, 2020

A Planner's Advice for COVID Couples

December 1, 2020

As a planner, I talk with countless couples every single day who have been affected by the coronavirus. Couples who had to cancel the day before their wedding due to shutdowns. Couples who postponed one, two, three, four times. Couples who abandoned all hope of having a wedding this year. Couples who said screw it and went to the courthouse. Your story is unique, but you’re not alone.

December 1, 2020

October 6, 2020

COVID Wedding Vocab: Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Pop Up Wedding, Tiny Wedding, Sequel Wedding and More!

October 6, 2020

Do you know the difference between a micro-wedding and a mini-wedding? A sequel-wedding and an elopement? A tiny wedding and a minimony??

There are so many new wedding terms this year that it is hard to know the difference between them all! Do they all mean the same thing? They are all just weddings at the end of the day, right!?

October 6, 2020

September 24, 2020

Must-Read Guide to Getting Gorgeous Photos

September 24, 2020

Photos are what you get to keep and hold on to forever after the big day, so you want to make sure that they’re perfect! Don’t let this stress you out — you will get those photos because we have the tools for you!

September 24, 2020

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December 8, 2020

4 Reasons You Have to Have Your Micro-Wedding in Hawaii

December 8, 2020

Are you beyond ready to get married?! We know so many people have had to change their plans or postpone their wedding date. This is why you NEED to run away to Hawaii to get married. Right now.

December 8, 2020

August 7, 2020

Why and When to Send your Elopement Announcement Cards

August 7, 2020

Eloping is the new way to get married! Between all of the craziness of the current pandemic and the ever changing restrictions on group gatherings, eloping is not only safer, but it is much easier and less stressful on the couple to plan. You will still want to get married even if you can’t have large groups of people there with you, so how do you make sure to let everyone know that you tied the knot?

August 7, 2020

July 30, 2020

Elopement Wedding Accessories | The Must Have Small Wedding Items

July 30, 2020

We absolutely love all things pretty — especially these new elopement wedding accessories designed by the Elopement Experts themselves. We have put together helpful planning notebooks, handy bags to keep your day of necessary items, and cute items for your tropical honeymoon too! Just because you’re having a small wedding doesn’t mean you need to miss out on the style and details!

July 30, 2020

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The Only Wedding Planning Tool You Will Need

Are you planning a Small Wedding and have no idea where to start? We completely understand. Planning your nuptials can be stressful even if you are planning an intimate wedding. You can spend hours, days, months, even years searching Pinterest for all of the information you need to make your wedding day decisions which is why we have assembled all of the information in one monthly Wedding Planning Membership for you.

The internet is littered with guides, how-tos, advice, and opinions — how will you know who to trust and which guides actually have the information that you need? The Modern Love Wedding Planning Membership is a completely unique, brand new tool to give you the information that you actually want. While everyone means well, some guides were written by photographers or dress designers who are experts in their field, but may not have all of the information that you need to actually plan.

The Elopement Experts of Modern Elopement together have over 23 years of professional wedding and event planning experience ranging from the largest of events to the most intimate elopements. We have heard every question that you may encounter and have prepared a detailed response for you.

With a complete digital planning guide and workbook, you are lead through all of the steps of prioritizing, preparing for, and enjoying your perfect day. This guide has over 50 pages of information where all of the guides you need are in one space — no more searching! As part of the membership, you will receive bi-weekly newsletters that detail a brand new topic that correspond with each of the lessons in the Planning Guide with worksheets that will walk you through all of your big decisions.

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