The Elopement Blog
Ideas, Inspiration + Advice for Couples Planning Small Weddings
Wondering if a small wedding or elopement is right for you? Here are the top 4 reasons couples make that choice, from a former celebrity wedding planner.
Signing a wedding vendor contract? Learn what protections to look for before you book, from a former celebrity wedding planner turned small wedding expert.
Telling family you're eloping or having a small wedding? Get 4 expert tips for breaking the news without damaging relationships, from a 20-year wedding planner.
What counts as a small wedding? Get clear definitions of elopements, micro weddings, and intimate weddings, plus the top reasons couples choose to go small.
Planning a small wedding? Here's exactly where AI tools help — and where they fall short — from a former celebrity wedding planner.
Wondering if you should have a wedding registry for your elopement or small wedding? Get the dos and don'ts from a 20-year wedding planning pro.
Planning a small wedding or elopement? Learn how to navigate difficult family relationships, guest list decisions, and expectations — without losing your peace.
What is a Micro Wedding? Well, essentially it is a small wedding with less than 40 guests that can follow any format you want, but generally has a few more traditional wedding elements than an elopement.
When planning your wedding, the flowers you choose will play a huge role in setting the tone for your entire event. Whether you're dreaming of romantic roses, whimsical wildflowers, or tropical blooms, your floral design helps tell the story of your special day. But how do you choose the perfect flowers, especially when you're eloping or planning a destination wedding like in Hawaii? It all comes down to timing, trusting your florist, and being open to changes. If you’re eloping with Modern Elopement, we’ve taken the time to create gorgeous designs that you can choose from.
Choosing a venue for your elopement is one of the most exciting decisions you’ll make in the planning process. Whether you envision a breathtaking beachfront ceremony, a lush tropical garden, or an intimate cliffside vow exchange, your venue sets the tone for your entire wedding day. At Modern Elopement, we’ve helped hundreds of couples find their dream location, and we’re here to share our tips on how to choose the perfect venue for your elopement.
At Modern Elopement, our passion is creating magical, stress-free weddings for our couples. Our dedicated team of Elopement Concierges is here to ensure every detail of your special day is perfect. Today, we’re giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what a typical day is like for our team.
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Real Elopement Weddings
Congratulations! You've said “yes” to forever, and the journey to “I do” begins now. The engagement period is a time of joy, dreams, and thoughtful planning. Here are 10 tips to help you navigate this special chapter and lay the foundation for a beautiful wedding day.
Weddings often come with long guest lists and grand celebrations, but there's a growing trend among couples to embrace the intimate and personal act of eloping—with no guests. While traditional weddings have their charm, more and more couples are choosing the path less traveled, finding profound meaning in a ceremony that's just about them and their love story.
Are you beyond ready to get married?! We know so many people have had to change their plans or postpone their wedding date. This is why you NEED to run away to Hawaii to get married. Right now.
How To Plan
As a planner, I talk with countless couples every single day who have been affected by the coronavirus. Couples who had to cancel the day before their wedding due to shutdowns. Couples who postponed one, two, three, four times. Couples who abandoned all hope of having a wedding this year. Couples who said screw it and went to the courthouse. Your story is unique, but you’re not alone.
Do you know the difference between a micro-wedding and a mini-wedding? A sequel-wedding and an elopement? A tiny wedding and a minimony??
There are so many new wedding terms this year that it is hard to know the difference between them all! Do they all mean the same thing? They are all just weddings at the end of the day, right!?
Photos are what you get to keep and hold on to forever after the big day, so you want to make sure that they’re perfect! Don’t let this stress you out — you will get those photos because we have the tools for you!
Inspiration
Are you beyond ready to get married?! We know so many people have had to change their plans or postpone their wedding date. This is why you NEED to run away to Hawaii to get married. Right now.
Eloping is the new way to get married! Between all of the craziness of the current pandemic and the ever changing restrictions on group gatherings, eloping is not only safer, but it is much easier and less stressful on the couple to plan. You will still want to get married even if you can’t have large groups of people there with you, so how do you make sure to let everyone know that you tied the knot?
We absolutely love all things pretty — especially these new elopement wedding accessories designed by the Elopement Experts themselves. We have put together helpful planning notebooks, handy bags to keep your day of necessary items, and cute items for your tropical honeymoon too! Just because you’re having a small wedding doesn’t mean you need to miss out on the style and details!
What to do if You Have to Postpone Your Wedding for Coronavirus
What do you do if you have to postpone your wedding? While this is pretty much the worst-case scenario right now we have some tangible advice on what you can do to make the best of the situation!
What do you do if you have to postpone your wedding?
While this is pretty much the worst-case scenario right now we have some tangible advice on what you can do to make the best of the situation!
If you want to or need to get married this year, we suggest planning a very simple intimate elopement at home or at an easy to get to destination. Many couples are choosing to do just the two of them and this can make it easier than having to decide on who to invite. Then postpone your wedding for next year or whenever makes sense for you so you still know you get to have your dream wedding once everything opens back up. We have had many couples get married after they were already officially wed and it did not take away from their wedding day one bit!
If you don’t want to get married yet, schedule something memorable on your original wedding date - maybe an outdoor dinner for two where you exchange a gift or read your vows to each other, so you still get to celebrate on your day.
If you are needing to change your plans altogether think about having an intimate wedding this year and a big fun party next year when it is safer for everyone to get together. This way you have something great to look forward to. Many elopement couples do a hometown celebration anyway after their intimate wedding. Again we don’t think this lessens the experience at all and gives your guests a chance to celebrate with you - which we are sure they are dying to do!
If you can afford it and you are changing your plans, hire a planner to help you. Having a professional take the stress out of your re-planning and knowing how to navigate contracts and details with you in order to put on a post-COVID affair is always a good idea. Or if you can’t afford one look into our Modern Love Membership which gives you access to planners and all the important info you need, when you need it.
Wondering when to tell people you're eloping? Get an honest take on why waiting until after the wedding might be the better choice.